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Best Friends

The acronym BFF gets thrown around just about as much as the words, I LOVE YOU. But honestly, true best friends are the ones that you can get together with and it's almost as if no time has past at all.

I have these truly special girl friends that are really my true best friends. The three of us have been friends ever since I moved to Alexandria when I was in first grade. Let's just say it was a rough adjustment, but they welcomed me with open arms. I was a little apprehensive about the fact of joining a new group of friends, but it's been over twenty years and we are all still here in Alexandria and we make every effort to continue to have our girls nights. All the ladies were in my wedding and continue to be huge supporters of me and my efforts to continue on being a strong woman, and mom. These special ladies are not only what I call true best friends, but sisters; because family will always be there for you no matter what happens in life, and these girls are the definition of that.

We may not always be super close and exchange texts every day, but when we are together, it's like we haven't been apart. Although we didn't get a ton of time to chat tonight, we definitely lived it up. What more can a girl ask for - wine, food, and a good movie at Cinema 9?!? Oh and buttered and salted movie theater popcorn.

Tonight was one of the best nights that I've had in a really long time. I laughed and I cried, all the while within the company of people that I trust: and that's a big deal.

These girls have been there for me for everything and I'm so thankful. I dedicate this post to you fantastic ladies. We will conquer the world together, play hard, and love harder.

Love you!



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